Sorry men, I found her

Written by cbte on June 16th, 2010

You know that girl you’ve been looking for?  The perfect girl?  The woman who outshines all other women?  Well, I have some bad news for you.  You’re not going to find her, because I already did.  I found her, and that girl is mine. Sparing you all the nitty gritty details, I ordered iLife for [...]

Debt-Free Wednesday: London

Written by cbte on May 19th, 2010

Being debt-free has led to the relief and removal of a lot of stress in my life. However, as you may recall from a previous post of mine, the key is to not become a tightwad. For a brief tenure of my debt-free life, I resorted to only saving, saving, saving. I wasn’t having any [...]

Certainty

Written by cbte on April 28th, 2010

As much as we crave uncertainty, spontaneity, and surprise – we crave certainty.  I want adventure in my life, but I also want that one corner of my brain to hold onto the things that I know I will always believe.  The memories I will always hold dear.  The people I will always love.  Excitement [...]

Postpartum

Written by cbte on April 25th, 2010

Well, my media center is gone.  The PS3, the TV, and the surround sound.  So how do I feel? I feel free.  I’ll come to a point in my day where I would usually put on a bluray movie to occupy my time, and I have to actively think of new things to do.  New [...]

Cutting the Cord

Written by cbte on April 22nd, 2010

I don’t really “watch TV”, per se.  I do, however, watch bluray movies.  I absolutely love seeing high definition content and hearing 5.1 surround sound.  But wait… if I enjoy this experience, why am I getting rid of my media setup? Minimalist bloggers everywhere are getting rid of their televisions.  They talk about how TV [...]

Confidence

Written by cbte on April 20th, 2010

My confidence level is one of the biggest determining factors of how well my day will go.  If I don’t feel like I’m going to succeed at something, I usually don’t.  If I’m feeling extremely confident about it, the outcome no longer matters as much – but I usually succeed, to boot.  Here’s the deal. [...]

Passion

Written by cbte on April 17th, 2010

Michael Jordan was a fantastic basketball player.  Eric Ruske is a fantastic horn player.  It’s easy to think that these people are superhuman and infinitely passionate about what they do.  It would explain why they are so good at what they do, certainly.  What is often overlooked is that passion is something that must be [...]

Debt-Free Friday: Give

Written by cbte on April 16th, 2010

Often, people associate “giving” with donating money to a charitable cause.  This is a fine example of giving, but it is without a doubt not the only way to give.  There is another form of giving that is forgotten through repetition of its absence.  It is perhaps the most important form of giving you’ll ever [...]

Music Paradigm Shift

Written by cbte on April 14th, 2010

Well, folks, it’s finally happened.  I say “finally” like I expected it to happen all this time, but I really never knew it would happen.  There has been a paradigm shift in my music taste.  As I’ve said in posts long ago, for a long time I’ve often enjoyed emotional, sad love songs, because of [...]

Life

Written by cbte on April 13th, 2010

Life is a beautiful thing. Every moment is an opportunity. Every breath we take issues another new moment to be had. With each breath we take, a greater force is willing us to lead our lives a certain way. We can fight it, but we will never win. Fighting will only lead to unfulfillment. Once [...]